But I love him...

[kaykay]

okay i've been dating this guy for about a month nd a half noww .. nd i mean i really really like him .. nd all of my gurlfriends r telling me he's no good nd i shud dump him .. nd they've been telling him that i've been cheating on him .. WHICH I HAVENT!..just so that he will dump mee..nd i mean he believes me but hes getting sick of all this .. nd i dont blame him .. but i mean when ppl say yur gurlsz alwaysz got yur back .. i dun believe in that anymoree! .. soo any one got any advice i cud REALLY use it!


Thankxxxxxx<33

[OMGZLOL]

this is a hard one.

in my opinion, the only time you should only ever contemplate ditching your friends for a guy, if he's the one you wish to spend your life with.

that said, my friend has ditched us and gone to live with a man old enough to be her dad. i don't like him, he's no good for her, and he doesn't make her happy. she claims different, but i've known her a lot longer than he has, and i can guarantee what i say is true; they won't last.
i would never ever tell him she'd cheated though, {even though she probably will}, or that he had {even though he probably has}, to break them up. that's makes her not trust me, which obviously you feel towards your friends now.

i don't know how old you are, but talk to your friends, and explain to them that even though they think you're making a wrong decision, if they are your true friends, they will be there for you when he hurts you.
try to make them understand that what they are doing is only pushing you further into his arms, and if they want you to stop seeing him, they're going to wrong way about it.

if they're your true friends, they'll be there to tell you 'i told you so'.

[kaykay]

Thankx alott! <3 .. im 15 years old .. but to make matters even worse we had plans to meet up todayy cuz i had a half day @ school right .. soo he said he would meet me there nd we would hang out .. just the two of us .. nd he promised nd told me he would definitly be there .. nd he even called me to tell me he's on his way .. nd he NEVER showed up! </3 that makes me think my friends got to him. .. </3 .. i really hate them right now .. nd i called him nd sed where he was nd he's like oh i forgot! .. nd i was like yu sed yu were on yur way .. wtf?! .. nd he hung up! .. sooo i have no clue what to doo!


Thankxx againn<3

[OMGZLOL]

talk to your friends, and to him.
you're still young, don't give up your friends for something you THINK might be love.
they may be pissing you off, and going the wrong way about showing it, but the truth is that they're doing it because they care.

[kaykay]

Thankx alot ima take yur advicee


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[OMGZLOL]

good luck.
i hope everything works out for you.
:}

[kaykay]

Here's an update!::
Me and my bf broke up! .. and its for good .. my friends had been telling me for a few days that they had seen him with another gurl .. nd i thought they were just trying to break us up .. as usual .. butt they were right! .. i caught him kissing this other gurl .. and guess who the other gurl was .. a supposivly good friend of mine! .. soo when they say chicks before D*cks .. their right:).. but you still have to keep your guard up! .. butt yah just thought i'd update you pplz:) .. soo thankx for the advicee everyonee! .. ttyl


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[Burberryqueen<3]

Man, they some jealous hoe'z ya got there...Tell em to back off!

[xcupidschokeholdx]

Oh shyt! .. i wudnt be puttin up with that! .. i wud be tellin them to F**K OFF!! .. dun put up with that!

[OMGZLOL]

himstress666 said:

Man, they some jealous hoe'z ya got there...Tell em to back off!

Maybe you didn't read the update.
You're such an idiot.
Pity on you.